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When “healing” becomes another way to avoid healing
Perhaps recovery isn’t about finding the person who can finally “fix” you?

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The Happy Goat: Freedom follows when you stop fighting a system designed to exclude you
Understanding the family scapegoat, nervous system survival and the freedom of choosing yourself.

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Your body is asking for something new
Making sense of physiological surges and confronting emotions in the midst of transformation THE GIFT OF TRANSFORMATION: A body wired for survival and doing can experience thriving and being as uncomfortable territory. Not wrong… just new, confronting ... and yes, scary. There are moments where your body feels like it has taken over. You wake in the night, heart racing. Your system feels charged, alert, unable to settle. Or during the day, a wave of activation moves through y

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